Emotional abuse is something that fucks with your mind big time. It will leave you wondering what you did wrong and where the hell you should go from there.
Of course, physical abuse is much more obvious than emotional abuse. However, that doesn’t make emotional abuse any less valid. These fifteen things can and will happen when you are dealing with emotional abuse. If you notice your partner doing these things to you get out of the relationship and find someone worth your time.
1. He becomes extremely upset when you confront him about his behavior.
While you are the real victim if you try to bring problems up he will do whatever it takes to make himself out to be the victim.
2. He is moody and unpredictable.
This can leave you walking on eggshells and it happens far more often than it should.
3. He makes fun of you in front of other people.
This is humiliating and makes you feel like shit. He does \this because he wants to make sure you feel as small as possible. This is a means of keeping you under his wing.
4. He compares you to other women.
This can happen with people you pass in town that neither of you knows or even women from his past relationships and it makes you feel awful. He is a big bully and will stop at nothing to bring you down.
5. When you tell him something bothers you he tries to pretend that he was joking.
HE WASN’T JOKING.
6. He blames you for everything.
He will never admit when he is wrong.
7. He will always point out the things he dislikes about you.
8. He always tells you the things you are doing wrong, even if it is something you can’t control.
9. He brings up your past mistakes more often than he should.
You make mistakes just like a normal human being does and he will not let you live them down.
10. He doesn’t want you to pursue your dreams.
11. He calls his obsessive and possessive jealousy ‘love.’
It is not love.
12. He doesn’t like your friends or family.
This is because he wants to cut you off from them.
13. He does not want you to talk about your relationship with anyone other than him.
This being because he doesn’t want others to see what he is doing.
14. He is always trying to get you to cancel plans with friends and family to spend time with him.
He wants you to spend all your time with him so that you lose contact with everyone else.
15. He gets mad when you go against what he wants.
Whether it is something big or something small if you don’t listen to him he will be upset.