Our personality is something that can make or break our relationships. If we have a good personality people will be attracted to us and if we suck, they will want to avoid us.
Some bad behaviors or habits can make us seem unapproachable or rude. In many cases, we may not even notice the issue. If you think people don’t like you but are unsure as to why that is, check out the list below. If you make these 9 mistakes often people will be running away from your rancid personality.
9 Personality Mistakes That Make You Unattractive:
1. Being Disrespectful
If you act in a manner that is disrespect full people will find you to be an ugly person. Respecting others is important regardless of their age, race, gender, sexual orientation, or anything else. Just because you don’t like someone or something about someone does not give you the excuse to be a douche.
2. Fearing Loneliness
Constantly searching for a relationship and jumping into things is not good. No one is going to want to spend their life with you if you are only concerned with finding someone to be with 24/7. Of course, it is okay to fear loneliness to an extent but don’t take it too far. Being single is not a bad thing.
3. Fearing Rejection
Never being willing to take a risk because you are too scared will show people that you are not happy and also not willing to do anything about it.
If you are always talking about yourself and your accomplishments, people will get tired of you quickly. Just because you have a lot of money or live in a big house does not mean people want to kiss your ass all the time. You are not better than anyone else.
5. Lacking Self-Respect
If you don’t have respect for yourself how are you going to expect others to respect you? You need to value yourself and know your worth.
6. Being Too Dependent On The Approval Of Others
You don’t need the approval of anyone but yourself. As long as you are happy nothing else should matter. If you want to do something, do it. Don’t fear what other people think.
7. Not Setting Limits
Letting people walk all over you is not going to do you any good. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. Just because someone is using you does not mean they like you.
8. Setting Your Standards Too High
No one is perfect and you need to accept that. Sure, you should aim for what you want when looking for a partner but you shouldn’t dismiss every single person without giving them a slight chance and some thought. The person we have imagined in our head is not always the person we fall in love with.
No one wants to be with or around someone who cannot get their shit together.