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First and foremost we have to love ourselves. This is not easy.

Loving yourself is something most people do not do, but once we do everything about us seems to change. Once we learn to love ourselves we grow in ways we could not fathom before. In order to be more ‘attractive.’ We have to love ourselves. I mean, if you don’t love yourself how is someone else going to?

These 15 habits will increase your attractiveness and help you learn to love yourself:

1. Enjoy the small things in life.

If you choose to enjoy the small things you will be able to maintain a positive outlook on life much easier.

2. Maintain a positive attitude.

Do the things that make you happy. When something shitty happens try not to let it get to you. Remember there are people who care about you in your life and that you are amazing.

3. Don’t hold grudges.

Holding grudges is not good for us. They cause unnecessary anger and pain for us. We hold onto the bad things in our life in hopes it will remind us to never let it happen again but we shouldn’t be doing this. Forgive.

4. Make time for yourself.

Sure we are all busy but that doesn’t mean we should neglect our well being. Sometimes we all need time to relax and unwind.

5. Eat healthily.

What we put into our bodies matters, nourish yourself. Don’t overindulge in processed foods and things that will eventually do you harm.

6. Get enough sleep.

Sleep is important. Get the right amount of sleep. Sleep benefits the mind and body and without it, we wouldn’t make it very far at all.

7. Know your self-worth.

This allows you to be confident. Don’t let anyone bring you down.

8. Be active.

Take care of your body. Exercise at least a little.

9. Live in the moment.

Sure, life gets hectic but that doesn’t mean you can’t slow down sometimes.

10. Connect with those around you.

Don’t live life on your own. Everyone needs someone. It is important to talk with the people in your life and really listen to them.

11. Make friendship a priority.

Your true friends will always be there for you as you should be for them. Don’t ever backseat you friends.

12. Stop doing things that make you unhappy.

If something feels like a chore to you don’t do it. If it is really causing you to feel overly negative then move on from it.

13. Don’t be so afraid.

Stop being timid. If you want to do something but are afraid, do it anyway. Nothing is ever going to change unless you take initiative.

14. Take care of a pet.

If you feel lonely but have all of the other things going for yourself get a pet. there is nothing wrong with feeling needed. Sometimes companion animals can make everything feel better.

15. Go out from time to time.

Yes, every so often makes time to go out with friends. If you don’t you will be regretting it later. Do fun things while you are still young. The world is your oyster, make sure your life is a pearl.

All of these things will prove to be attractive. A person who knows themselves and does things for their own happiness is the most attractive they can be. Once you love yourself the right person will come into your life when you are ready.