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Maybe you just have a bad feeling, or maybe you have already found evidence that your partner is cheating. However, no one wants to falsely accuse their lover of doing the unthinkable.

Of course, there are a number of sure signs that your significant other is messing around. While we could list these all day long, and maybe you just don’t want to believe it, if you see the following signs in your partner, it may be time to have ‘the talk’ with them, before you are made to be a fool.

1. The ‘In Your Face’ Cue

Lipstick, perfume, strange hairs, and even odd smells, in general, coming from your partner or their private area is a tell-tell sign that they are messing around. 

2. He is Using and Hiding His Phone from You

In the past, your partner may not have used their phone as much. However, recently, you have noticed they take it everywhere and are constantly on it. And then, when you (for whatever reason) ask to use it, they get defensive. This is a major RED ALERT. This is especially a red alert if your partner doesn’t seem to reply to you, yet jumps at every text message when you are around them.

3. He Begins Working Late….A LOT

Before, work didn’t seem to be an issue. Now, all of a sudden, your partner is having late night meetings. Work is running over for hours, and conference calls in privacy are taking over your time together. You may ask them to go to dinner, but unfortunately, a big project at work has come up.

4. Speaking with New Jargon

Some people have reported that the first sign that their husband or wife was cheating came about after they noticed their partner using new lingo. According to the Huffington Post, one man noticed his wife was cheating when she started using the term “Good Christ!” after she nor he had every used before.

5. They Avoid You

When your man or woman suddenly refuses to become intimate with you, something is up. While it may be as simple as stress, it could be a sign of something else. If you are noticing other signs of cheating on top of this, you may need to have a talk with your lover.

6. They Have a Lot of Sexy Friends that are the Opposite Sex on their Social Media Accounts

They are commenting, liking, and following a variety of people who are of the opposite sex, despite knowing your thoughts. If you notice your man watching a variety of sexy women on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, this could be a very bad sign.

7. They are Acting Strange

While weeks ago your partner may have been acting loving and close, now you notice that they are distant. They are lashing out at you, picking fights, and acting shady. Of course, if you are reading this, you already have your thoughts, but if you notice this along with other signs, something is up.

8. They are Caught Lying About Random Things

Whether it’s about working late, a message from a friend, or their whereabouts, suddenly, your truthful partner is lying. Lying is a sign of covering something, and covering something is a major sign for deceit. Even if they aren’t cheating, being deceitful is wrong in a relationship. It’s time to talk to your partner.

9. They Ignore You

When your partner is sitting in the same room as you, yet they are constantly somewhere else, they may be seeing someone else. You may notice that in instances in which they normally speak to you, they are suddenly quiet. That bond may even seem to be deteriorating. If so, communication is necessary to understand what is truly taking place. Unfortunately, something is up when your partner is suddenly ignoring you.