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For many people, finding love can prove to be a daunting task. While we wade through the sea of potential partners, we may ignore certain people because we simply can’t accept them for who they are.

And while this isn’t always a bad thing, to be cautious of the people that we choose to love, it can separate a truly potential mate from the rest. However, when we choose to endeavor into a relationship, there are many flaws that we come to understand months or even years down the road.

Of course, in many cases, these flaws will erode onto the relationship until it is ended. But, in some cases, something much different occurs and we learn to love consciously.

Unfortunately, this isn’t a common occurrence, as most people find it difficult to cope with the downfalls of others. However, if you truly decide to let someone into your life, mind, body, and soul, then you choose something much more beautiful than typical love.

Instead, you choose to allow another individual into your ‘unsafe’ zone and can be yourself. Why? Because you have a mutual, unconditional bond that was created by your acceptance. Now, don’t get me wrong, this sort of bond doesn’t come to fruition over night. On the contrary, it can take years for us to come to understand what love truly means.

And while we may understand this fundamental truth, others may not. While it took us years to gain this understanding, it can take years for others as well. But there is hope.

Knowing that unconditional love is the answer can open doors for ourselves as well as others. You see, once you open your heart to your partner and love them without conditions, in most cases they will learn to return the favor. And if they don’t, eventually, despite your beautiful, loving heart, you are intelligent enough to walk away and to give your conscious love to someone that is accepting of it.