Several Eastern philosophies have equated the sexual experience to that of spiritual enlightenment. And it is no wonder they held such beliefs, as when we think of sex as a purely physical act, we completely miss out on the truly mind blowing experience that tantric sex can offer.

In order to utilize true sexual energy, you must first claim your erotic self, and learn to mindfully channel your sexual energy. While this may take a few changes in habit, it is something that can easily be achieved and practice once you understand its premise. Letting go is the first step on the path to a more spiritual sexual encounter. Surrender your anxieties, critical thoughts and scatterbrained tendencies during sex. Instead, give in to every pulsing movement of pleasure that spreads throughout your body.

Caress your partner, and truly experience them. Look at them with your full attention, and take in every aspect of their being, mind, body and soul. Surrender your body to pleasure, and completely allow it to take you over. Mindfully feel your partner inside of you until you begin to climax slowly, yet blissfully into orgasm until you and your partner become one.

However, you must remember that it is not only your bodies that are meshing together as one, it is also your souls. To begin the process, begin speaking sensually to your partner hours beforehand. If this feels strange, you may need to practice on becoming more comfortable with your partner, as you must be able to be completely open with them before enjoying a truly spiritually sexual encounter.

Taoism suggests that a man matches his Yang energy to her Yin energy. You see, yin is a water symbol, which can be slow to warm, while yang energy is that of fire, which will flame up immediately. While this can make it quite easy for a man to surpass the energy of his woman, thus leaving her behind, he must slow down and take his time. Begin with four play to build the sexual tension. Slowly, and sensually touch one another. Next, use your hands and mouths to explore one another’s pleasure zones. Do everything you can to find new and unexplored regions lying on each other’s maps.

To truly understand your partner takes time, effort and the motivation to do so. This is a two-way concept, that is of the utmost importance for a spiritually satisfying sexual experience.

However, once you have become attuned with one another, you can then fully claim your sexual energy. By claiming your inner Goddess or God, you can let go and give into your sexual partner. Once you have mastered the act of a spiritually sexual experience, you can truly give in to caring for your partner. This experience will allow the two of you to grow together as one in a way you have never done so before.

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