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Sometimes it is better if we realize earlier on that a relationship isn’t going anywhere. Not everyone gets it right the first time, sometimes we go through a few relationships before we get it right, and there is nothing wrong with that.

If your relationship is not making you happy, chances are it is one you should be getting out of. While we have to make it through the bad times, not all the bad times are things we can make it through. If you notice the signs below get out while you can before you get hurt worse.

15 Signs It Is Time To End The Relationship

1. You have completely different ideas for the future.

If you don’t have at least similar visions for the future, what is the point of being together in the first place? You are going in completely different directions.

2. You are not happy.

If you aren’t happy chances are your partner isn’t either. You are not doing anyone any good bu staying in the relationship.

3. You argue a lot.

Arguments never solve anything. You need to talk your problems out.

4. You hope things get better but they don’t.

No matter what you do things are only getting worse.

5. You are at a loss for words when it comes to describing your relationship.

You don’t know what this is anymore and you damn sure don’t know how to handle it. You cannot find anything in this relationship to be thankful for.

6. You are insecure in your relationship.

You are not sure what will happen from one moment to the next. You never know what the future has in store for you. Even the smallest thing can ruin your whole world.

7. You are often upset.

You pretty much cry yourself to sleep every night not knowing what to do. You cannot handle what this relationship is doing to your emotions.

8. This relationship is becoming too much.

It is affecting your work and how you handle interactions with other people. You aren’t quite sure why this is bothering you so much but it is.

9. You don’t like spending time together anymore.

It is literally a chore to spend time with one another. Every time you are together you argue more than anything else.

10. One or both of you are flirting with other people.

There is no real commitment in the relationship anymore. You are both at your wits end.

11. You do not want to be intimate with your partner anymore.

You are not comfortable with one another anymore. There is something pulling you two apart. Even kissing your partner feels more like a chore these days.

12. You feel empty.

You no longer gain any fulfillment from the relationship.

13. Your family notices a change in you.

They notice that you are no longer happy and have tried to talk to you about it. Of course, you did what you always do and made up some excuse for your partner’s behavior.

14. Your partner tries to cut you off from your friends and family.

This is a huge red flag. If your partner wants you to stop spending time with your friends and family they are most likely being overly controlling and creating a serious tear in your relationship.

15. You do not love your partner anymore.

When you look at your partner you are not feeling the same things you did in the beginning. The person you once felt love for is now someone you feel nothing for. When there are no feelings left there is no point in dragging things out.