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When you come out of a long relationship things are a bit weird. You have to learn how to rely on yourself again.

You are back to being single and this is unfamiliar territory, to say the least. You have so much more time and chances are you don’t quite know what to do with it. You might be upset or torn apart even, from the break-up. Coming out of a long relationship is never easy.

You feel restless and your mind will not let you relax. Life feels like a circus and you don’t know where to go from here. That being said you will not give into the heartbreak, you refuse to let it win. You have friends and family who are there for you and you look to them for support and they take care of you. You wish you had been a better friend to those people when you were still in your relationship. You wish you hadn’t blown them off and wonder how it is they are still here for you in your time of need.


You loved the person you were with and this break-up has taken quite the toll on you. You question everything and wonder why you were not enough. You build walls and shut out all potential new relationships. You don’t want to go through that again.

You need to face the music and move on but you can’t not till you are ready. You are only human and being sad is normal. This is not the end of the world. You will be able to pick yourself up and put yourself back together, you don’t need a relationship in order to feel whole.

You will be just fine in the end. Give yourself all the time that you need and let those around you lift you up. Have fun and find yourself. There is no better love than the love you can have for yourself.